Aside from irresistible sugar baby photos, a key aspect of your sugar dating account is writing a compelling sugar baby profile. You don’t want to miss out on a generous sugar daddy just because your profile is lacking gusto! You want a POT to be wowed and take action immediately. Here are our top 6 tips on how to write a captivating sugar baby profile.
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Why isn’t my sugar baby profile getting many hits, views, or likes?
Why don’t daddy’s contact me after they visit my sugar dating profile?
Your sugar baby dating profile is your first impression and vital to enticing POTs to want to get to know you. There are many more sugar babies than sugar daddies so you need to be proactive in getting your well thought out profile in front of POTs. A creative and cleanly written sugar profile serves as your serious entrance into the sugar bowl. Think of it as your personal marketing tool. Use these tips to upgrade your sugar baby profile and become irresistible!
1. Wow them with your “about me” profile section
Choose a sugar personality
Choose an easy to remember alias name that sticks with POTs. It is advisable to avoid your real name as profiles are often public or information could be leaked in the future or via screenshots.
As a sugar baby, you should describe yourself or your sugar persona physically, mentally, and emotionally to a POT. You want them to get an overall feel for who you are and how you might fit into their life.
Describe yourself physically especially if you do not feature a public photo or facial photo.
Lean toward the friendly and refined and avoid looking immature or vulgar.
Avoid exaggeration or placing yourself in an awkward position
When discussing your personality or your sugar persona, Be Honest! You don’t want to write that you are a connoisseur of fine wines if you can’t tell a Pinot noir from a Syrah.
Make sure you do not veer too far from your true personality as the separation and act it takes to keep up will get very stressful. There may be parts of your personal life you choose not to bring into your sugaring life but try to enhance your natural personality. This is especially important if a long term arrangement is formed! Faking for too long will become exhausting.
Create value not entitlement
Lots of sugar daddies enjoy the girl next door type. Some get sweet gratification from being the first to introduce their baby to a life of luxury so don’t feel you have to fit into any stereotype. Don’t ever put yourself down.
Sprinkle in your interests and hobbies. Expand on common interests to stand out from the crowd. Turn “I love to read” to “I love to read sci-fy by Isaac Asimov.”
Avoid describing yourself in an entitled way. “Princess” is usually not cute after the age of 12.
If you have a personal quote, a favorite line from a book or movie, or mantra this is a great place to share it. Let POT SD know what you stand for.
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2. Play to your strengths
Be confident and boldly showcase yourself.
Brainstorm what makes you memorable to past POTs? Ask your friends for your best features and what makes you stand out in a crowd.
If you enjoy any unusual hobbies or have a rare talent use that as a sugar baby attention grabber. It makes you real and interesting.
If you are physically distinct in any way such as a particularly beautiful feature, showcase it here.
Do you have an extended education and interesting experience? Highlight that.
Some sugar dating sites feature a “headline” section. Write this after you complete your profile so you can try to capture the essence of your sugar profile or persona. Remember to write for the daddy you want to attract. If you sway towards the naughty don’t be surprised when the POTs contacting you are Johns in disguise.
3. Discuss a life goal.
This gives an insight into the woman you are and where you are going in life.
To some daddies, this can be very intriguing. If you are passionate and your goals touch them they may begin to have a stake in helping you reach your goals.
4. What can you offer a POT Sugar Daddy?
When discussing the type of arrangement you are looking for focus on what you can provide a POT.
What would your ideal sugar daddy appreciate about you. What value do you bring? Not what are you worth, but what is your value?
Most sugar daddies will know how much you’d love to grab that new designer bag you’ve been eyeing. There is no need to focus on these tangibles. It will look entitled and put off some great POTs who would be happy to provide them but aren’t looking for that sort of attitude. So avoid the “I want” attitude (of course we all have it, just keep it under the surface).
Focus on aspects of the relationship you can offer that would make a man whip out his wallet.
If you have specific relationship goals add them here.
For example,
“I’m looking for an adventurous sprit who would love to fly together to Milan and explore the Piazza del Duomo, a travel goal I have always dreamed of as a history buff.
5. What am I looking for? Be specific!
Describe your ideal arrangement
Get straight to the point and say exactly what you want in the sugar arrangement but without listing dollar amounts.
Brainstorm your ideal sugar arrangement and the type of sugar daddy you would want by your side.
What does he do for work? What hobbies does he enjoy? What conversations will you have together? Write your profile to target this exact sugar daddy character. Use and abuse well-known marketing tactics- know your audience and cater to your nitch!
Consider describing a perfect date.
Avoid generalities or being vague. They are boring, used by almost everyone, and often obvious. For example, “Looking for a daddy to provide the finer things in life,” obviously. Be more specific.
Create a dream image
Avoid negatives.
If you have standards or hard “rules” state them here in a friendly, professional tone.
For example “I can’t wait to meet you in city XYZ, but I am not available to travel as I’m focusing on my education.”
This demonstrates your value as you are not always available to them. You have expectations that you are not willing to compromise on but convey them in a tone that focuses on your positive attitude.
Showing your standards also allows POTs to filter themselves out as poor matches. For example, the POT who is expecting their SB to drop a week of work every month to travel with him on business will not contact the above baby if they read her profile. This saves everyone time and the frustration of mismatching expectations.
Don’t be desperate in your profile
Avoid looking desperate. SDs know you expect financial help but they are not looking for problems. One of the benefits of sugar dating is supposed to be the ease of forming and maintaining the relationship. Financial gifts can be discussed in full at the Meet and Greet.
While looking desperate is not fashionable on anyone, it is often helpful to provide a range if you have an absolute minimum you would consider. It would be a waste of everyones time if you wouldn’t engage in an arrangement below a certain threshold. Keep it classy and frame it as a standard not an entitlement.
Use profile Keywords to your advantage
Be sure to use a sugar dating sites keyword feature if they have one. POTs often filter by keywords and the right ones can increase traffic to you sugar baby profile.
Make sure you fully understand what each keyword mean in the context of sugaring.
Be aware that some keywords will exclude your sugar dating profile from many searches. A key one being “platonic.”
While many SBs would love to find a platonic arrangement, it is not what the vast majority of SDs are searching for. Only you know what you are comfortable with in a sugar relationship but you’ll be searching for a unicorn if you go the platonic route. Intimacy is part of almost all relationships and sugaring is a relationship.
Like any marketer, end with a call-to-action. Tell the POT exactly what to do and they are more likely to actually do it. For example “Message me today so we can discuss our arrangement.”
6. Edit, edit, EDIT that sugar profile!
Sloppy grammar, slang, and misspelling reflect poorly on potential Sugar Babies. You’ll look immature, impulsive, and uneducated.
If you write your profile on a phone try to go back and edit it on a desktop ASAP.
Download Grammarly or cut and paste your profile into Word to take advantage of their spelling & grammar correct feature.
Watch out for too many words. Significant length can put some POTs to sleep. Give them enough to want to reach out and ask for more!
Break your text into smaller paragraphs to make it easier to read.
Consider re-checking your revised sugar baby dating profile after a few days. With a clear head you may pick up on awkward sentences or remember aspects of your personality you forgot to highlight.
BONUS PROFILE TIP
A lot of sugar dating sites sort by “last online” or “recently visited.” If you can, log in often. If you have the privacy to keep your page open on your desktop that keeps your profile appearing towards the top as you’ll be “online.”
Check in every so often to see if you have any new visitors, likes, favorites, or messages. Check out these POTs. On many sites they will see that you visited their profile too. The mutual interest might serve as a welcome to move to a message. Of course you are welcome to message them too!
Be active and search through POTs you might be interested in. Again just seeing you visited them on some sites puts your profile up in front of them as a “visitor.”
It takes time to refine your sugar baby dating profile. Don’t get discouraged, try again, be creative, and soon you’ll target the sugar daddy for you. Good Luck Fellow Sugar Babies!
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